Dont You Dare Let The Sex Flame Die Down!!!
Its all about loving the one you are with here people take charge and get the heat back into the bedroom. It is just not a good idea to let you sex life fall to the ground and get kicked around like an old soda can, no no you need to always make sure that you have time for sex, I am talking about making time for sex cause we can all get caught up with work and problems but that is in no way an excuse not to bump uglys with the one your with!!!
Communication Is Key
There are so many benefits to sex and it can do wonders for your mind body and soul. As I have mentioned in previous blog post on this very subject SEX IS AWESOME there is really no way around that and people you really need to be having as much as you can. Ask any sexologist or sex therapist or whatever you wanna call them and they will tell you what I am telling you just in case you don’t want to take my word cause I don’t have a Ph. D. in sex.
So fucking what if I am not a professional I am smart enough to know that sex in a relationship is important, no it is not the most important thing, friendship is but that’s another post for another day. Sex is a nice ingredient to add to the recipe of your relationship it will spice things up and get you to bond in a way that just plain talking wont do, sometime we have to stop talking and start moaning.
Frequently Asked Questions
Now on to they main event of this little post of mine, this is where i am going to lay down the most commonly asked questions about sex that those who are brave enough have asked.
Orgasms Can Be Achived In More Ways Than You Think.
I say those who are brave enough only because most people are to afraid to just asked what they wanna know about sex. The cat is out of the bag people are having sex it has been going on for a while it is time that you grasp on to this fact of life and just ask some fucking questions already.
If your curious then get you curiosity solved by just going balls deep into the things you wanna know get all the answers you can and get really educated!!! Now on with the show.
- Will Sex Improve My Energy Levels And Productivity?-
We Are A Whole Lot Of Energy Just Waiting To Be Released
Theanswer to this question is a simple one folks. Really good, thrilling, and mind blowing sex will get your creativity going as sex and a creativeway of thinking are very closely related. If you have a positive outlookon life then tasks will seem a lot easier to complete. Sexuality is an energy and when that energy is released into our lives magical things can happen. This is not for hit it and quit its, I just wanna make that clear, the whole point of those is just to get off and can be quite draining on the body.
- What Positions Will Achieve Orgasms Easiest For A Woman?- See this one is tricky as all women are different however with that being said there is one thing that all women can agree on that gets their bodies to respond the best to an orgasm. Clitoral Stimulation is key to reaching that moment of ” OH MY GOD!!!” Its not all about the positions so much as it is about foreplay in this case.
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Hitachi Magic Wand Massager With Attachments
What Are The Most Popular Toys?- Linda Savage Ph. D. and sexual educator swears by a little device called the ” Hitachi Wonder Wand.” This in her opinion is the guaranteed orgasm as it increases female arousal and ca easily be used during sexual intercourse. It all depends on what you are into when you get down to it so this might not be for you but fear not there are many many toys out there for you to chose from. The Wonder Wand toy can be found at www.goodvibes.com
- What Are Common Complaints?- Timing is everything in the bedroom and I am sorry to say but like 10 minute sex is just not going to cut it in this day and age. See we are living in a time where marital roles and the rules of relationships have greatly changed so it is a good idea to keep up with the times. Old ways just are not going to cut it anymore so you need to come up with a plan B. The goal of sex used to be to orgasm but you see that is sort of out dated. Orgasm are fine and wonderful but you need to focus on the pleasure aspect of sex and getting the most you can. That is what sex is truly about and you need to keep in mind that you cannot control and plan sex it need to be something that just happens and when it does you need to make the most out of it.
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Love Is A Many Splended Thing All You Need Is LOVE!!!
What’s Love Got To Do With It?- When your heart is open to someone during sex the moment becomes much more than two people in a bed. The essence of love is a very powerful thing as love is the healthiest emotion that the human body can feel. To stay in that stae does wonderful things for our bodies and yet some people still want to keep their love close to them in some sort of fear that if they give to much love away the will be hindered. The energy that radiates from the center of the heart is the best way to be healthy and have amazing sex, so love has everything to do with it.
Love Potion #9 Is A Myth......
Nobody has the perfect instruction manual for sex and no professional is going to have all the answers but if you don’t ask and you don’t do your research than your sex life will never truly grow and gain more knowledge. Everyone is different in this world, we are all unique and have our own individual needs and wants, and the range for these needs and wants varies greatly.
So when you find out what you want and what makes you happiest in the bedroom the best way to let your partner know is not to let them go on a wild goose chase searching for ways to better please you. The best thing that you can do is just talk it out and communicate to them what you want. This goes for bot men and women here people alright we can all communicate i mean that is something that we are taught how to do from birth so use that skill to you best benefit.
Sex is something that is meant to be enjoyed and to be expiremented with. It is not something that you have to play it safe with and just stick to the basics. No change things up and try new things don’t be afraid to be somewhat adventurous in life that’s what makes life fun. So go out there and start having some really good sex cause you know you deserve it!!!
A Quote By Linda Savage:
Linda Savage
“Since sexual energy is the source of our connection to the life force, the benefits to physical, emotional, and mental heath are obvious. If you are in a loving relationship the positive benefits, and therefore happy feelings, are more likely”
