My Girlfriend Cheated On Me…With A Girl!!!

Scott comes home from his shift at the restaurant, he busted his ass all night to make his $100 in tips, just for his wife Beth to take half of it and go to a bachelorette party.

This was not your ordinary bachelorette party… Oh no!!!  This particular bachelorette had female strippers instead of male strippers. Scott’s wife has had a sexual history with females, so needless to say it can be predicted that she didn’t mind it to much.

While Scott spent the night at home with his best friend Mitch, Beth partied on with her friends and made a interesting connection.

With one of the strippers, Shasha…

The party was coming to a close  and the other ladies were starting to leave, but Beth was not ready to call it a night. Sometime during the party Beth got Shasha’s number and decided to put it to good use.

She calls Shasha and invites her to a hotel so that the two of them can keep the party going. Long story short,  Beth ends up paying Shasha for a night of girl on girl fun. Once the fun had been had, the two girls said their goodbyes and Beth went home to her husband, who was in a sleep stupor.

Scott then woke up at the crack of dawn, came home,  and went to church with Beth. Keep in mind that Beth has still  not said anything to her husband about the night before. While Scott cooked dinner for the two of them, things started to slip out.

Blah Blah Blah…”Babe I went down on a stripper from last night and had sex with her”

Scott’s interpretation was, cheater, liar, deceptive bitch. His heart sank to his feet with the realization that his wife paid a stripper to have sex with her, which in turn makes that stripper a prostitute. Out of the goodness of his heart, to hinder a could-be lethal situation, Scott tells Beth to leave the house for awhile.

Now, alone in his house, he has to wonder, why…

What Went Through Her Head

This situation is down right shitty and heart breaking. It’s hard to make a decision about whats more sad, the fact that she cheated, or the fact that she cheated with a woman, and didn’t involve her husband in the fun. It’s not like the stripper would have really minded a threesome, they are not paid to care.

So what was going through the head of this women that made her feel the need to cheat on her husband with some stranger who is paid to get naked for a living? There are many things that would cause such a thing but let’s target the top three shall we.

1. She Didn’t Fell Fulfilled Sexually- Perhaps the sex in her marriage was not everything she wanted it to be. Since she had a history with females before, she knows that women know what women want, so she took advantage of that. Not that her husband wasn’t a sex god in the bedroom, bathroom, kitchen, or wherever they decided to do it. Maybe she simply wanted more than he was giving. So instead of having the grown up adult-talk with her husband, she had an opportunity to cheat, and did.
2. Closet Lesbian- There are many women who are married to a man, maybe have a couple of kids, and have a lesbian lover on the side. Beth could very well be one of those women just looking for a lesbian lover. Maybe she was hoping that her husband wouldn’t find out or maybe that is exactly what she wanted to happen. She didn’t intentionally want to hurt her husband, WHO WOULD??  She just wanted to get her needs met. She felt she needed a woman so she tapped into that desire and went for it.
3. Alcohol Took Advantage- You know how it is, the alcohol gets to you and you find yourself making bad decisions. Your judgment is impaired so you make rationalizations in your mind that make what your doing or what you want to do okay in your own mind. Cheating with a women would make it okay. It’s not like she was cheating with a guy so…No harm No foul!!  However, everyone knows that alcohol is no excuse to cheat regardless of who it’s with.

There are a lot of other things that could have been going on as well. She was mad at her husband for something that she was holding a grudge about since prior. She was aware of what she was doing and just didn’t care enough to stop because she was caught in the heat of the moment. Or she just wanted to have sex and the stripper gave off the same vibe.

Whatever the reason was, what Beth did to her husband was wrong and hurtful, even if that was not her intention.

The Bottom Line

Cheating Causes Nothing But Pain...Remember That!!!

Even if Beth had just kissed that girl cheating is cheating bottom line and there is no excuse for it at all. It cause hurt and strain on a relationship and the people that are in them. The trust is broken and everything that you built together now seem to have been in vein.

The end of a marriage is especially messy as there is a lot involved. You can try to work it out but the fact of the matter is that it will always be in the back of his head that you will do it again. Once a cheater always a cheater, that saying could not be more true as it never fails.

If you want to have a little bit of fun in your marriage then do the adult thing and talk to your husband about it. Don’t sneak around behind his back.

Every guy dreams of a threesome so why deny him of it when the opportunity presents itself. You promised to honor you husband at you wedding did you not? Trust me he would praise you for a threesome he would not be bad at all.

Every one wins. No hurt…Lots of pleasure!!!