Men Vs Women: Who Are The REAL Users???

Welcome,

To the Men Vs. Women smack down right here on Kristi Riley’s Blog, brought to you by my mind, my thoughts, and my fingers with purple nail polish.

It is nothing new that men and women are different in many many different aspects of life.

It truly boggles my mind at how most men seem to have a driving force based around sex and most women’s comes from emotional exchange.

See women want to receive things like respect, validation, and recognition. They like to feel needed and loved. Men on the other hand emotions and feelings really only come into play for anything sex related.

The Main Event

Lets get right down to it that men and women are just different.

Its a reality that many can’t seem to come to grips with it.  Or they spend endless night stressing about how to change it.

What are the reasons and ulterior motives for being with the one your with?

The main event for the show tonight is the differences between men and women in relation to dating and relationships, but there is a spin on it.

Say that you looking for a new person to date, what do you look for and why? If your already in a steady relationship, why have you stayed with this person so long? What are the REAL reasons you date someone?

So here we go…..on with the main event!!!

In the pink corner, at 135 lbs, wearing the sequin two piece bikini and heels. We have THE WOMAN!!!

In the blue corner, at 175 lbs, wearing boxers and the t-shirt he fell asleep in. We have THE MAN!!!

Round One

“What do women really want?” The question that men ask themselves on a daily basis.

Another question they find themselves asking is “What the hell is she doing with that guy?”

Men see a guy with a knockout and think have to wonder how that happened.

Is she in it for the cars, the money, the connections? Those questions usually follow, but what if she is not in it for any of those things, what is he is the one using her.

Yes men use women to, but not always just for sex. So what else could it be you think? what’s in it for him for dating this gorgeous girl? Lets see if you can build an answer for this one if I give you the base.

Men Like…….

• Sex- 30-45 seconds of foreplay, with the women doing 98% of the work, then a good 15 minutes of sex followed by a sandwich. “Don’t complain, the drive here was part of the foreplay!”
• Relationships- First off, a relationship in men’s terms is having sex on a regular basis and a bit of hand holding in public. A break-up will often lead to the drunken “I HATE YOU…you a (every cuss word in the book)” phone call.
• Maturity- Men never want to grow up and try their damn hardest to make sure it never happens. End of story! “Dude, throw the rest of your shake on that car….DO IT DO IT DO IT!!!”
• Magazines- If you have looked threw your man’s magazines that are in his bathroom, they ALL have naked ladies in them. Chances are that is the only reason he has a six month subscription. “Man she has some amazing tits!”
• Going Out- When a man says “I am ready to go out” he is ready to go out plain and simple. He took like 4.2 minutes to shower and get dressed, probably wearing at least one article of clothing he wore the night before.

Round Two

“What is he thinking? The question all most women between 5 and 10 times a day.

Yet another one of those repetitive questions is “Why is that dream boat with that slut?”

Women look at the couples with a hot guy and slutty girl thinking that it must be a pitty thing. He is such a sweet guy that he didn’t want to hut her feelings. “Awe he is just stuck with her. He is so sweet he can’t hurt women’s feeling.”

This is usually so far from the truth it’s ridiculous. That “Slutty” girl looks that way cause it is the male fanatsy of what women should look like to reel him in and  snatch him up. “Why would she do such a thing?” Here are some clues.

Women like…

• Sex- Allowing 30 to 45 minutes of for play, followed by intimate sex, and massive amounts of cuddling afterward. ” I feel so safe and loved in your arms!!!”
• Relationships-  To women, a relationship is having a man around to open the jars she cant and tell all her problems to all the time. In the case of a break-up she will cry her heart out to her friends, write a poem titled “All Men Suck,” and then get on with her life.
• Maturity- In high school a 17 year old girl can often make grown up decisions in a rational way. Women enjoy growing up, not necessarily the age part, but the knowledge part.
• Magazines- Women’s magazines have no naked me pictures mostly due to the fact that the average guy does not look goo naked. The female form is soft skinned and somewhat of an art. The male form is well lumpy, hairy, and should be enjoyed with the lights off.
• Going Out- Women take hours upon hours to get ready and even when they say “I am all ready see you there” you will end up waiting another 15 minutes for touch ups.

Round Three

How did you do? I know I have some smart cookies out there.

Those of you who are a bit slower on the take off allow me to help you.

Men want respect from other men. Women want things from men.

Men get with the hot barbie wannabees simply because they want other men to stare while saying “DAMN!!!” They like the recognition from their friends as well as stranger that they pulled one hot piece of ass

Women do what is necessary to get that sexy stud of a man because they want THINGS lots and lots of things. These things are usually material. The cars, houses, and shopping sprees. The connections their men have to things that they want in life.

The Belt Goes To

Wow folks……we seem to have a tye……two winners.

Both men and women are users in one way or another lets just face that fact right here as a group. Sit down, take a hit of the peace pipe, and sing kumbaya together as one.

Men want something and women want something. Now this is not true in all cases so don’t go off getting me wrong.

Not all men and not all women want something from a relationship in relation to material things and respect from other people.

“Cause who cares what other think right?”

Men and women alike want to feel love and security from that one special person. They enjoy having a companion there to help them get through hard times and to celebrate the good.  so you see that not all men and women wan to just use the one they are with.

Personally I find that caring what other think as well as material positions are not in the category of things that matter the most in this world. Love, friendship, fulfilling your dreams in life these are some of the most important.

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