Awe Yes Love What An Amazing Feeling!!!
Alright time to get a little sappy as I have been a bit harsh in my last few post but hey I tell it like it is and if you can’t handle that well that sounds like a personal problem. My post today is all about that four letter word that makes women weak and men run for the hills, yes I am talking about LOVE, and the wonderful powers that it processes.
Love has the abilities to make you do the things you always said you would never do and say the things that you never wanted to say. If i may quote Ewan McGregor form the 2001 romance movie Moulin Rouge, “Love is a many splendid thing. All you need is love!” Now this could not be more true as love is our strongest positive emotion that we can express. It can be argued however that love is not a feeling but an ability and those you have this ability are truly blessed as it is the warmest and most wonderful thing to feel love and give love.Can you imagine that some people can go their whole lives without ever truly knowing what is like to love some one or what it like to be loved.
That ultimate connection with someone is so powerful that it makes you wanna be the best you can be if not for you than for that person cause you truly believe that they deserve the best and the best of you. So here is the question of the day people…. “Are you in love?” well first your probably asking yourself “How do I know if I am in love?” There are very simple signs to answer that very question my friends and i will lay them out for you right now.
Are You In Love?
Bare with me here people I know I am getting very sentimental and that’s a bit of a a switch up from well lets say yesterdays post where I pretty much put an axe in the head of the overly controlling psycho bitch but just stay with me and maybe I can squeeze some angsty flavor to this post. With that being said lets continue on with this love boat ride through happy rainbow land, there ya go a little sarcasm.
Feelings Of Happiness Just Consume Your Soul.
How to tell if you are in love well there is anywhere between subtle changes to extravagant ones. Now these changes may or may not be known to you right away but with a little time you will most definitely notice them. The things that you do and say, actions you take even if going out of you way to take them, certain need that begin to develop these are all sings that you my friend are falling or have already fallen into love. Allow me to go into some detail for you just so you can fully chew and swallow the concept of being in love.
You Know Your In Love When………
- You Feel Good & Special When That Person Is Around- This is not to be confused with lust alright, lust is a completely different feeling all together and can commonly be confused for love. Just being in the presence of this person make you feel good inside and makes you happy overall. You feel safe and warm when the hold you hand or touch you in anyway for that matter and the time that you spend with them is very much enjoyed and you feel as though that time was very productive to you life in many many ways.
- Sex Is No Longer JUST SEX!!!- It is almost as though you two become one and nothing is more beautiful to you then when you share that special embrace and engage in sexual pleasure. Its is a part of your relationship but not the only part and its wanted by both of you with out any kind of persuasion or convincing. It has become a moment that is shared between the two of you as you give yourselves to each other knowing that by doing this your self in in the hands of someone who truly cares for you.
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I Blow Bubbles In My Milk
Fight Are Few & Far Between If Any Fights Happen At All- Fighting with this special someone just seems stupid and childish there really is no point to doing it. However in the case that a fight does happen you can’t really even call it a fight as its more a a disagreement but it is solved very shortly cause your communication is free flowing and understanding of this person is very well known to you.
- You Can Act Like A Dork & You Don’t Care If They See- Its is the easiest it has ever been to truly be yourself when you are with this person. You could jump up and down wearing a hot dog costume blowing bubbles in you milk and if they were in the room with you while you are performing this nonsense everything is okay. You can be open an honest about anything and everything with this person and they will do the same for you. They don’t judge you or make you feel bad about anything you do or talk to them about and they support you in every way they can without any hesitation.
- Jealousy Is A Thing Of The Past- You trust them to take care of your heart, the relationship, and not do anything to betray or hurt you. When they tell you they are doing something or going somewhere you trust that they are telling you the truth and just let all thought of doubt leave you mind as soon as they arrive. They is there when they say and call when they say they will, there is no reason given not to trust them and because of that you open your heart to the no questions asked.
So Here Is The Bottom Line On Love
Love Love Love!!!
Love makes you feel amazing just knowing that you mean a lot to someone in this world and seems to give you a kind of power to push through hard times that you find yourself in cause you know you get to see them at the end of the day. Them being the last thing that you see before you fall asleep and the first thing you see in the morning makes you feel butterflies like a 7 year old with their first crush.
With them in your life loving you when you need it, supporting you when no one else will, and being strong for you when you are at your weakest everything seems just right. They accept you for exactly what you are and don;t try and change you into anything that your not. It is easy to understand that never knowing this feeling is a huge loss in this life and should the opportunity present it self it would be a wise decision to just go for it. To Never know love would be like never seeing the sun, the beach, or even the stars but even comparing it to those magnificent sights does not do it justice. Love cannot be measured, calculated, predicted, or controlled it just is and when it hits you trust me you will know even if it takes some time to sink in.
Now for those of you who have known love and lost love there is are two great quotes that you should keep in mind, “Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all,” and “The course of true love never did run smooth.” Those words were spoken by Alfred Lord Tennyson and none other than Shakespeare himself. Love is wonderful but it does pit us at our most vulnerable and leaves us wide open to hut and disappointment. Even with these risks love has to be experienced and known its one of life many lessons that we have to learn.
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