Most men and women are to shy to talk dirty however the reality is that sexual communications is in fact a great way to turn up the heat in the bedroom.Talking dirty during sex with the one you love or even just the one your with at the time can be uncomfortable the first time just as sex is the first time. The more you do it the better you get at it and and one your comfortable with talking dirty then you will be able to perfect it and make you sex much more steamy and passionate.
Talk Dirty To Me Baby!!!!
To do it well lets face it, getting loose and getting relaxed, this means letting just letting go and exposing yourself in ways which you never have before. Think of it as fore play during sex or a sexual booster. I can tell you that women love to hear you talk dirty in that sensual soft voice. If it makes you feel better practice in front of the mirror because in order for you to become comfortable talking dirty to your lover you must first be able to talk dirty to yourself.
Dirty talk is a type of pillow talk where you use your wonderfully vivid words to get some sexual enjoyment before and during your night of lovemaking. Talking dirty can be anything from giving insults, creating vivid images using slang words, whispering and even curse expressions. You always wanna be close to your lovers ear and just let the dirty talk fly through your mouth and into their brain which will ship it straight to that special part of their body and give them the warm tingles they desire.
Dirty Talk 101: Tips To Talking Dirty
Get Really Dirty With It!
I am going to introduce to you the basic steps to being able to talk dirty without getting embarrassed or uncomfortable. Steps that are easy to do and easy to understand it just takes a bit of confidence on your part but besides that they are a piece of cake.
Find your zone and go for it, don’t be afraid, you the tiger let you lover hear your RAWRRRRRR!!!!! Your life together as a couple should be hot and wild, it should have an almost adventuresome tone about it, if he is doing his part to give you the best sex of your life then do you part to make it that much more exciting. So without further ado……
- Be Original & Authentic- You might have the this idea that dirty talk you see in movies is the way it has to be, something specific. Good dirty talk however is completely what you make it to be, how well you do it, and how much of yourself you put into it. A great way to do this is to simply make a list of different aspects you like about your personality that you can draw inspiration from.
Find Your Sexiest Voice.
- Find You “Naughty” Voice- Finding your own way of talking dirty is a very important part. You could make your dirty talk low rhythmic grunts, high pitched squeals, or precise whispers. Really its whatever tickles your fancy or whatever you feel the most comfortable with. It might reflect the way that you talk in your day to day life, or it might even express a different aspect of your personality that you want to target. Change it up now and then, don’t just stick to one, keep your lover guessing and wondering what youe going to do next.
- Expand Your Dirty Vocab- As a child you were more than likely raised not to swear but dirty talk is your opportunity to pull out all the foul words that you can think of for your mouth express. Now you’re role playing try to avoid clinical and technical terms like penis and vagina as they are not very sexy, unless your role play calls for it. If you’re at a loss and can’t find anything to say then,do some heavy research on the computer or maybe even in porno’s.
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Take It Easy At First.
Start Out Slow-
Don’t in anyway feel like you have to rush right into an elaborate sexually verbal Olympics. A beyond great way to start out with the dirty talk is to describe out loud what is happening during sex. Things like “I love the way your hand feels in my…,” or “Your …feels so good on/in my…” are very hot starter offers as well as what you wanna do or want them to do. Describing what’s happening and how it feels in your body lets your partner know whats going through your mind with every move they make and everything they do. - Two Way Dirty Conversation- Once you’ve taken the big scary risk of being the first to initiated the talking dirty with your partner now its time to ask them to do the same. It isn’t for everyone that much is to be expected and you might find that you like doing it way more than you like hearing it or vice versa. Whether your on the giving or the receiving end of the dirty talk keep and open mind as you might learn something from your partner that you can use.
There you have it people the beginning steps to dirty talking. Its as easy as 1,2,3 and the sooner you just get brave and do it the hotter you sex life is going to get. Its a great way to add mystery, passion, and excitement to your sex life without having to spend alot of money on toys and lotions or whatever.There is however different ways to go about dirty talking to a man or a woman…..
Dirty Talking To A Woman
Tickle Her Fancy.
Women love the dirty talk but you have to make sure that you approach it the right way. So now what do you say that is the question. What does she want to hear exactly? Is she expecting porno talk or does she want you to be suave and unique using creative language to describe her genitalia and tits?
- Really study your women from the way she behaves down to what she orders at breakfast.
- Leave it in the bedroom and never take it into public.
- Don’t disrespect her in any way treat her like a bad girl without being hurtful with your words.
- Turn the tables on her and let her have dominance for a while.
- Go in for the kill and just let all the dirty getting her really hot before you finish her off!!!
Dirty Talking To A Man
Make His Desires A Reality.
Some guys ave openly admited it that dirty talking in the bedroom makes them a lot hornier. Once you know this for certain about your guy you can harvest the rewards from it and use it to your greatest advantage. It makes you feel sexier and better at what your doing because you are seeing first hand your mans enjoyment from your influence.
- Tell him what you’re wearing under your clothing.
- Make him crave you even if your not in the same room by sending a dirty text here and there.
- Breath lightly, kiss, and nibble on his ear guys go crazy for it.
- Start the dirty talk in random public places.
- Put great emphasis on how what he does to you feels.
Time To End This
The Dirtier The Better....Keep That In Mind!!!
Dirty talk is a great way to express yourself openly to your partner during the most intimate of activities that the two of you can perform together. Men and women love to see reaction for what they are doing, well telling them how it feels is just as good.
Don’t be afraid to be open and honest with your partner about how it feels or what its doing to your. Let it all go in the bedroom as it is just you and you partner its not like anyone else is going to hear what you are saying. Be yourself with it, get into it, enjoy it.
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