 Normal: conforming to the standard or the common type; usual; not abnormal; regular; natural.
Yep, that is the dictionary definition of this thing people call “Normal”, sounds thrilling doesn’t it. From just that definition, I can conclude that “Normal” is BOOORING!!!
Bland, dull, lifeless, and any other relative terms you can think of! Who would want to be normal and standard, the better question is… Who would be content and satisfied with it? Well…
You have no idea how many time a day I hear… ” Maybe I should just act normal.” More than I should be, that is for damn sure. It is perfectly okay to be different and unique, hell the best people in the world are. There is nothing wrong with stepping out of the box, I broke out of my box and threw it in the trash. I advise everyone I meet to do the same!!!
There is no such thing as Too Weird...
What is “Normal” anyway, what defines normal. By my standards I am very normal, but if you ask those who don’t agree, t hey would probably tell you I am weird and crazy, to that I say Psssh!
That is the main problem, people think they should be what others expect them to be. Well, that is simply not the case! You should be EXACTLY what you want to be, bottom line.
Let’s face the cold hard truth shall we, life is hard, people are ruthless, and there are going to be things that happen that are unfair. That is just how it goes, and you can choose to accept it, or try and fight it.
For some reason, people choose to try and fight it. Like I have said over and over again people, EVERYTHING in life is a choice. So CHOOSE to just accept that life is gonna be hard.
Listen to me okay… People are going to talk behind you back, you going to accumulate a few enemies in life, and you are going to piss someone off at some point. Life is a bitch, it’s hard because everything worth anything always is. Why make it harder on yourself by having to TRY to be something you are not.
Trying to be “Normal”… That is a lot of wasted effort don’t ya think! You could put that towards something you are passionate about instead, something exciting!!! There is a very simple solution to all of this… JUST BE YOU! Of course you are going to have to compromise sometimes, but always stay true to you.
It is also important to take note of the fact that you are NOT you parents, your friends and family can have influence on you, but again it is ultimately your choice to be who you want. The people in your life should be supportive of who you are entirely. They should never try to change you, or stir your life!
Decide to just shut out all the negative things that people have to say, and be you. We were all born different for a reason, because we are supposed to be. If everyone was the same, this would a world in a rut. Shake things up, add some spice to the world.
If it weren’t for the people who put their unique personalities and views out there, we probably wouldn’t have the things we have grown accustom to. Cell phones, Computers, Cars… Different is good, Normal is what YOU make it!
